A Guy’s Top Dating Pet Peeves
There is nothing you will not do to pull off that date.
You shopped for a dress with your girlfriends, and took the time to get your hair and manicure done. You prepared so hard to impress him. But do you know that all those arduous preparations may suddenly go to waste once you commit this one mistake that guys cannot just let pass?
Let’s talk about men’s biggest pet peeves when it comes to dating.
You were the sweetest when you greet the guy. But as the waiter trips over and accidentally spills water on your dress, you freak out.
You make rude comments, even threatening the staff that you will be reporting the incident to his manager.
This kind of attitude is likely to put off the guy as it seems you’re only faking in front of him. Don’t set your expectations too high about him calling you back now that he has seen you transform to a scary, unforgiving monster.
Being too self-righteous.
So you asked about his profession. But after he responds, here you go saying how you feel your career is the best and most fulfilling there is in the industry.
And then you go adding how boring your date’s job may be. Or perhaps, you talk about a political issue and nag all night about how the government or politicians should have approached the situation.
Little did you know you are already offending the guy’s beliefs that he just opted to keep mum. He lets you do all the talking which is in itself a red flag. That means he wants to rush his way out the soonest he can.
So you tell him it would not take you too long to change clothes, but it has already been hours and he is still waiting.
Even when the guy wants so bad to see you, he might just say pass. You are acting so important all the time, arriving too late when you were the one who set the schedule.
Disclosing it all.
Whatever happens during the date should stay there, between the two of you.
As much as possible, limit the news you are spilling to your girlfriends.
Keep the budding romance story to yourself and reserve sharing when you are sure where you and your date stand. After all, it adds excitement to each of your meetup that you need not answer to anyone.
You were not paying attention to what he is saying.
You are so busy updating your twitter, facebook and instagram accounts, taking photos of anything you find and posting it online. You also did not let the orders pass. Right the time the waiter delivered it on the table, you immediately took out your phone and started taking photos of the entree.
It seems like you were more interested texting and going online than talking and sharing real, fun conversations with your date.
For the meantime, put that phone down unless it’s a matter of life and death.
Finally, do not bombard him with messages asking about your next date. Let him do the first move. If he is really interested, he will get in touch with you.
Nettie Gray appreciates it when her guy friends share their thoughts on dating and don’t mind even when she’s writing essay about what she learns, as long as specifics are spared.
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